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25 Secret Dog Body Language Signals You’re Completely Missing

Think you can read your dog like a book? Think again! Your furry friend is speaking volumes with their body, and you might be missing some crucial messages. Let’s decode the secret language of dogs and become fluent in canine communication.

1. The Whale Eye 

Ever notice your dog showing the whites of their eyes, giving you a sideways glance? That’s the “whale eye,” and it’s not just a cute look. It’s often a sign of anxiety or discomfort. If you see this, give your pup some space – they’re telling you they’re not feeling too hot about the situation.

2. The Play Bow

The Play Bow

You’ve probably seen this one – your dog’s front end goes down, rear end up, tail wagging. But did you know this isn’t just an invitation to play? It’s also a way for dogs to diffuse tension and show they mean no harm. Next time you see this, join in the fun – your dog is asking for some quality playtime!

3. The Lip Lick 

The Lip Lick 

No, your dog isn’t just thinking about dinner. Quick, subtle lip licks can be a sign of stress or an attempt to calm themselves down. If you notice your pup doing this in new situations, they might be feeling a bit overwhelmed. Time to offer some reassurance or remove them from the stressful environment.

4. The Head Tilt 

The Head Tilt 

We all love when our dogs cock their heads to the side – it’s adorable! But it’s more than just a cute pose. Dogs often do this when they’re trying to understand something. It’s their way of saying, “Huh? Can you repeat that?” Next time you see the head tilt, try rephrasing what you said or showing them what you mean.

5. The Tail Position 

The Tail Position 

You know a wagging tail means a happy dog, right? Not always! The position of the tail tells you more than the wag itself. A tail held high and stiff can signal alertness or even aggression, while a low, fast wag might mean your dog is nervous. Pay attention to where that tail is – it’s a mood barometer!

6. The Ear Position 

Floppy or pointy, your dog’s ears are constantly communicating. Ears perked forward show interest or alertness, while ears pinned back can signal fear or submission. If your dog’s ears are constantly moving, they’re probably trying to gather information about their environment.

7. The Yawn Tired pup? 

Maybe not. Dogs often yawn when they’re stressed or trying to calm themselves down. If your dog is yawning in a new or potentially stressful situation, they might be telling you they need some reassurance or a change of scenery.

8. The Paw Lift

The Paw Lift

No, your dog isn’t practicing their “shake” command. A lifted paw can indicate uncertainty or mild anxiety. It’s like they’re saying, “I’m not sure about this.” If you see this, try to identify what’s causing the uncertainty and help your pup feel more comfortable.

9. The Body Shake 

You’ve seen your dog shake off water, but have you noticed them shaking when they’re dry? This full-body shake can be a way for dogs to release tension. It’s like they’re physically shaking off stress. If you see this after a tense moment, your dog is resetting themselves.

10. The Hackles Raised 

When the hair on your dog’s back stands up, it doesn’t always mean they’re angry. Raised hackles can indicate arousal of any kind – excitement, fear, or aggression. Context is key here. Look for other body language cues to understand what your dog is really feeling.

11. The Belly Up 

The Belly Up 

A dog showing their belly isn’t always asking for a tummy rub. Sometimes, it’s a sign of submission or even fear. If the dog seems tense or their tail is tucked, they might be saying, “I give up!” rather than “Rub my belly!” Always let the dog initiate contact in these situations.

12. The Frozen Stance

The Frozen Stance

If your dog suddenly goes still, pay attention. This could be a precursor to aggression or a sign of extreme fear. It’s like the calm before the storm. If you notice this, calmly remove your dog from the situation before things escalate.

13. The Panting 

Sure, dogs pant when they’re hot or after exercise, but excessive panting can also signal stress or pain. If your dog is panting heavily without physical exertion or heat, it might be time for a vet check-up.

14. The Smile

The Smile

Yes, some dogs actually smile! But be careful – what looks like a smile could be a submissive grin, which is a way for dogs to say, “I come in peace!” It’s often accompanied by a lowered head and squinty eyes. Not all “smiles” are happy ones in the dog world!

15. The Nose Lick 

The Nose Lick 

Quick little licks of the nose or air can be a calming signal. If your dog is doing this, they might be feeling a bit anxious and trying to calm themselves down. It’s their way of saying, “Everything’s cool, no need for conflict here!”

16. The Play Sneeze 

Ever notice your dog sneezing during playtime? No, they’re not allergic to fun! This is actually a signal that they’re just playing and not being aggressive. It’s their way of saying, “This is all in good fun!”

17. The Whale Tail

The Whale Tail

A tail held high and wagging in big, swooping motions (like a whale’s tail) is a sign of extreme happiness and excitement. If you see this, your dog is over the moon about something – probably you!

18. The Head Turn

The Head Turn

If your dog turns their head away from something, they’re not necessarily ignoring it. This can be a calming signal, indicating they’re not a threat. It’s like they’re saying, “I come in peace, no need to worry about me!”

19. The Paw on You

The Paw on You

When your dog puts their paw on you, they’re not just asking for attention. This can be a sign of dominance, affection, or even anxiety. Context is key – are they relaxed or tense when they do this?

20. The Bum Tuck 

A dog running with their tail tucked and bum lowered isn’t just being silly. This can actually be a sign of fear or submission. If you see this, your dog might be feeling insecure and in need of some gentle reassurance.

21. The Chin Rest 

The Chin Rest =

When a dog rests their chin on you or another dog, it can be a subtle sign of dominance. But don’t worry – it’s not always a bad thing. In many cases, it’s just your dog saying, “I’ve got this under control.”

22. The Tongue Flick 

A quick flick of the tongue over the nose isn’t just about catching treats. This can be a stress signal, especially if it’s repeated. If you see this, your dog might be feeling uncomfortable with the current situation.

23. The Belly Curl

Ever notice your dog sleeping curled up in a tight ball, with their nose tucked under their tail? This adorable position isn’t just about comfort. It’s actually a defensive sleeping posture that protects their vulnerable belly and vital organs.

24. The Hip Lean

The Hip Lean

When your dog leans their hip or body weight against you, they’re not just being cuddly. This can be a sign of trust and affection. They’re saying, “I feel safe with you.” Enjoy these moments – they’re signs of a strong bond!

25. The Slow Blink 

Just like cats, dogs use slow blinks to communicate. If your dog gives you a slow, deliberate blink, they’re showing you affection and trust. It’s like a doggy “I love you.” Try blinking slowly back at them and see what happens!

Becoming Fluent in Dog

Understanding your dog’s body language is like learning a new language – it takes time and practice. But once you become fluent in “dog,” you’ll have a deeper, more meaningful relationship with your furry friend. So start watching closely – your dog has been trying to talk to you all along!